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Extroverts receive energy from interacting with people, connecting with others and socializing. They feel energized by going to brunch with friends, attending a networking event, or conversing with a stranger in the waiting area at the DMV.
I am an extrovert, and I do, in fact, have high social needs. I constantly crave social interactions. An upcoming Friday night without social plans or activities worries me. I feel that I am wasting my youth and a good weekend.
I prioritize my relationships and social life. I try to be an attentive friend. I remember important dates/events and I arrange my schedule to accommodate a friend’ preference. I show up for events and gatherings, even when it takes every last ounce of my energy. I will do a lot of things that I don’t really want to do, if it means a friend doesn’t have to miss out on something because they couldn’t find someone to go with.
This week, I texted 14 people to go to a small local event with me. I couldn’t get anyone to go. No one wanted to go and I should accept it.
Silly dilemmas like not having people to hang out with, makes me feel lonely. I feel silly admitting this. My problems are nothing but luxury issues.
People me must think I am dramatic.
